Sorry but HE is training you. Everytime you put him to bed and say even one word to him after that he WINS. No rubs no nothing. Just put him back to BED and walk away without one word. You are going through all this because he KNOWS if he keeps it up you will give up and he will win. It will take a couple of nights ( maybe start on a weekend) but IF and I mean IF you do not cave in he will see you mean what you say (this time as of now he knows you really do not mean what you say) and will stop all this. He can scream his head off but DO NOT...DO NOT repsond ( that is what he wants). Move his