I'd strongly suggest starting here.
http://blog.nathanbransford.com/
http://www.writersdigest.com/101BestSites/?m_nYear=2008&m_sCategory=all
http://www.sfwa.org/for-authors/writer-beware/
Get yourself a twitter account that you can dedicate to learning and start following people in the industry.
Learn, Learn, Learn, and Learn some more.. Write, write write and write some more. Have other people who aren't your family or friends read your work and critique it. People who know what they're doing. DO NOT PAY FOR A SERVICE. Follow Yog's Law. The money flows toward the