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  1. DomesticViolenceByProxy
    The parenting time that Monica Peters received is similar to what Judge Beavers gave me. Every other weekend, no holidays, no school breaks. "My daughter" has yet to comply with any visitation despite the fact I was ordered to pay $719 per month for my daughter based on the opposing attorney's calculations. I have seen her may be 5 times in the last 2 years and she lives within 10 minutes of me and the school she attends is in my district. I have seen her 0 times in the last 6 months since Judge Beavers Order was signed (it is under appeal). I receive no help with our college freshman's tuiti
  2. DomesticViolenceByProxy
    Connecticut is the epicenter for family law reform right now. This man's testimony includes the loss of his son at the hands of his ex-wife's boyfriend. The man was told that he was jealous and upset because he didn't get his way in court. This is a frequent theme unjustifiably broad brushed on to corruption complaints. https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=kx4pCS_KipU
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    Michelle Jensen Tolmoff testimony regarding judicial complaints being dismissed 100% of the time in Connecticut. Of 112 complaints, 112 were dismissed. 84 the prior year. Of those numbers how many were never filed because the conduct was knowingly not going to addressed? She also touches on guardian ad litem misconduct. https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=2hchALwuEp0
  4. DomesticViolenceByProxy
    Thank you. This really highlights gender bias of Paulding County Courts. Just think of what would have happened to the father had the child sustained those injuries while in his care. If he wasn't arrested, the father would have to pay for supervised visits so returning custody to him wouldn't even be a thought!
  5. DomesticViolenceByProxy
    Yes, very true. "Sunlight is the best disinfectant."
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    Is it a CASA (Court Appointed Special Advocate) or a guardian ad litem? I know I'm not on a lot of Christmas card lists around here but I'd appreciate knowing which judge and or the case #. Please have the dad contact me through my daughter's website or Facebook Page and she'll forward the information to me. Please do not PM the information through PCom. Not that I don't trust Pubby, he seems to have a lot of integrity. It's just my personal preference. We are trying to organize courtroom observers and have other plans in the works that he may want to participate in. I would love the
  7. DomesticViolenceByProxy
    Funny you should mention that TP.
  8. DomesticViolenceByProxy
    This 53 second clip by Peter T Szymonik. Connecticut is leading the country right now on cleaning up Family Court Shenanigans. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uNhV77ACPlw "Totally unprofessional behavior. Totally unethical behavior. And no one to complain to." Peter T Szymonik Task Force to Study Legal Disputes Involving the Care & Custody of Minor Children https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uNhV77ACPlw&feature=youtu.be To watch his entire testimony and many others go here: http://april25.weebly.com/ct-task-force-on-child-custody-cases.html#.UzkaEvmMOSo
  9. DomesticViolenceByProxy
    Cognitive dissonance seems to run rampant.
  10. DomesticViolenceByProxy
    I could be wrong but I think Beck lost the TV show and is just on the radio or streaming internet. I think movies lean left because most people with creative imaginations lean left. People who lean right tend to know how to make a buck off what the left leaners create. Kind of like Tesla and Edison.
  11. DomesticViolenceByProxy
    Yes... "When writing the story of your life, don't let anyone else hold the pen." -?
  12. DomesticViolenceByProxy
    Very true. I've noticed some people are even afraid to admit they agree with you on some subjects. It takes strength of character not to be a conformist.
  13. DomesticViolenceByProxy
    This really is common sense for most but the reason really is the same as the reason that cameras should be in court rooms. Speaking to Nora Owen on TV3′s Midweek, Judge Judy said closed courtrooms protect two things – bad judges and bad lawyers. “They also protect bad institutions that serve those courts, such as social services,” she continued. “They should be there as the norm. If you have a specific exclusion, then you make it.”
  14. DomesticViolenceByProxy
    Often people have no idea or understanding of the topic at hand. They cannot imagine the shoe being on the other foot until it literally is. Or may be they recognize their own behavior and don't want others to be able to recognize it for what it is, abuse. They don't like their secrets being told or their tactics revealed. Just because the wounds are invisible doesn't mean it's not abuse. It took me a long time to realize abuse doesn't always have to be physical. Physical wounds heal much faster than psychological/emotional wounds. If it takes an adult a long time, imagine how long it
  15. DomesticViolenceByProxy
    Good share
  16. DomesticViolenceByProxy
    May not apply but still something to consider... https://www.psychopathfree.com/content.php?148-Sympathy-for-the-Devil
  17. DomesticViolenceByProxy
    That probably works in a normal situation. This isn't just dealing with a high conflict ex. Parental Alienation Dynamics, is not your ordinary high conflict parenting situation. It is a false equivalency to say that both parents refuse to work together. It goes much deeper than that.
  18. DomesticViolenceByProxy
    I totally agree. My daughter lives within 5 miles of me and I can count the number of times I have seen her on one hand in the last two years. Her mother refuses to put her in LEGITIMATE therapy and NO ONE can give a bonafied reason why she shouldn't spend time with me and her 2 sisters that live with me. They all have the same mother yet the mother acts like 2 of her daughters don't exist. Apparently, legal professionals in Paulding County think this is normal behavior for a mother. The mother's family has an extensive history of mental health issues, parental alienation and parent-ch
  19. DomesticViolenceByProxy
    As I understand it, the Court lost the paper work he submitted and as a result of its error wanted to re-sechedule. The Court had no respect for his time or that of his client. Lawyers generally charge for courtroom appearances and due to a courthouse clusterflub, time and money was wasted so naturally JJB demanded some explanation other than being tossed aside.
  20. DomesticViolenceByProxy
    If you are going to go off topic I would strongly suggest you review all of the information that is available before commenting. “Every intention, every achievement has come out of dissatisfaction, not serenity. No one ever said, “Things are perfect. Let’s invent fire.” – Fran Lebowitz
  21. DomesticViolenceByProxy
    That is more of a time-out. A time-out involves introspection.That is a constructive healthy response. The "silent treatment" is indefinite and is used to punish and control someone else. It doesn't involve any self-reflection of how to approach the problem or does it seek a resolution to the problem other than complete submission. The silent treatment is destructive and uncompromising.
  22. DomesticViolenceByProxy
    Well said. The silent treatment is a ridiculous tactic that defies logic if compromise and resolution is the goal. Clearly compromise and resolution is not the goal, compliance is. Adults should disengage and not blame themselves for such conduct. For children it is a more difficult problem to solve when it involves a parent or adult. It may require the intervention of a stable adult as this behavior is frequently associated with personality disorders though not always. Even if the intervening adult cannot reason with the abuser, the intervening adult can lend support and stability to the chil
  23. DomesticViolenceByProxy
    In my opinion, I had the better attorney, if she did her job. Looking back, it seems winners and losers were picked at the outset. If you want change and you have a voice, you use it. Given the timetable, I have no incentive not to raise awareness or file complaints with the bar and state licensing boards. So far so good...
  24. DomesticViolenceByProxy
    Generally, toxic people don't advertise that they are toxic. Once you've taken the bait it may be too late. If you are in a co-worker environment, you don't always get to pick who you work with. The same with being in a team environment of any kind. That's kind of the point of raising awareness. So you can identify toxic behavior before you are taken by it. Often that first experience in your youth that teaches you about toxic people can become lifelong if a child or children are involved. Thereafter it is easy to avoid them but watch that first step, it's a doozy. Once you've had a ch
  25. DomesticViolenceByProxy
    Aside from gaslighting, the silent treatment is probably the most abusive form of psychological and emotional abuse. Contempt for a child or the child's actions are displayed disapprovingly through facial expressions and body language while avoiding any form of verbal or written communication. It is nonconfrontational abuse that doesn't afford the child any opportunity to resolve the cause for the abuser's actions. As a result, it implements a state of emotional instability through fear and guilt. The silent treatment is designed to punish and control a child by breaking their self-confidence
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