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Do you have a pack mentality?
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Thanks TP. I like your willingness to standby your convictions, as well. More often than not, we agree without subjecting ourselves to "conformity". -
Malignant Narcs usually don't commit suicide. There is no narcissistic supply from the finality of suicide. They do lead double lives where people outside of the home think they are wholesome as apple pie but behind closed doors at home the true self is revealed. What went on between these two we may never know.
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I've never been married either. I now promote vasectomies. It costs $5,000 to reverse a vasectomy but $10,000 to retain a decent attorney and may be $30,000 in total when the dust clears. Marriage is a business and should be treated as such. There is nothing romantic about divorce and nearly 60% of marriages find their way to divorce court. This is his second family. He's been to family court before and probably didn't like it. May be the prospect of having to deal with family court again until the age of 56 was too much for him. Especially if he was in a depressed state. 15,000 men commit
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Invisible wounds. Some advice regarding depression is like putting a band-aid on a broken leg. Or worse, taking a swipe at the broken leg.
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Anger creates problems it doesn't solve them. I prefer to say I am focused on reform. The only people who are angry are those trying to conceal the truth behind systemic problems. And those that make money of the backs of children and their parents. More money flows through divorce court than all other courts combined, $50 billion dollars. A lot has changed since the middle of the 20th century. Women are no longer housewives dependent upon the income of men. More women attain degrees than men. Men are more involved with their children and there are many more "Mr. Moms". We can't allow the
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FEAR has two meanings: Forget Everything And Run Face Everything And Rise https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FkRB2oZZE4A
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Do you compromise your thoughts and beliefs to fit in? To make someone else happy? Are you a member of a group that rejects diversity and differing opinions within the group? Do you feel pressured to conform or to compel others to conform to avoid rejection? The reasonable man adapts himself to the world; the unreasonable one persists in trying to adapt the world to himself. Therefore all progress depends on the unreasonable man. - George Bernard Shaw Here is an interesting study... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TrNIuFrso8I
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Some clarity would be needed but I would say in cases that you have intimate knowledge of, in clear cut cases, don't turn you back on the children and just throw your hands up and say they'll figure it out one day. Come forward, testify, anonymously report it. Emotional and psychological abuse is against the law but admittedly, proving it is not black and white. I guess I'm doing a poor job of explaining this so may be Wendy Archer can do it better. https://www.facebook.com/notes/wendy-archer/theyll-snap-out-of-it-when-they-turn-18-and-other-false-information-about-parent/10151245613034417
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Probably? Is that a fact or just probably? Women are just as likely to cheat as men. Better than 30% of paternity tests reveal this. That number may be higher if you include the results on Maury. A woman has multiple children by multiple fathers and all of the fathers are the bad guys? How many DIFFERENT fathers should women have for their children before she has to take responsibility for her actions? I think the blame should be shared equally. Looking at society over the last 40 years, the current system isn't working. Many women initiate divorce because they have a financial incenti
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Because "injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere." [MLK] Abuse is abuse, bullying is bullying and our reaction to it should be gender neutral not gender biased. One day you and yours may need someone to stand up. If you saw a child being sexually abused would you mind your own business? If the child is physically abused would you mind your own? The brain has the same chemical reaction to mental abuse as it does to physical abuse. So should you ignore emotional and psychological abuse of a child? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CRCS6GGhIRc
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Learn the facts, stop the acts. Parental alienation is often a strategy coached by some lawyers. Parental alienation is child abuse. If you see someone alienating a child, tell them to stop. Bystander apathy calls upon you to look the other way. If you do, when the damaged child becomes an adult that child becomes society's problem. http://www.huffingtonpost.com/joseph-e-cordell/is-your-ex-turning-your-c_1_b_5691359.html Recent studies have found that some level of parental alienation can be found in 11-15 percent of divorces involving children, and that severe alienation
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You are correct. I do not know her. I'm sure she is a wonderful person. Not holding a judge accountable is in no way taking the high road.. He chose to be a judge. With that choice comes scrutiny of the decisions you make and the manner in which you and those in your charge conduct themselves. You also have to remember that these actions not only reflect against this judge but if it was allowed to continue for a long period of time, it may or may not reflect against the supervising Chief Judge on who's watch this conduct occurred. Does the buck stop with supervising leadership? This
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Where's the Outrage for These Shootings?
DomesticViolenceByProxy replied to Foxmeister's topic in RECENT TOPICS
Where's the outrage for these lootings?