I see what you are saying...but my question is, is it still harmless when it causes your partner anguish?
I mean, seriously, I know people are gonna look, hell, I look. But I really try not to be obvious about it. And if it is someone on TV, where we are more likely to get eaten by a shark while walking to our cars than meeting them, I don't have a problem with it. But if it hurt your wife's feelings when you did it, or commented on it, would you still do it?