I was brought up to wear the best you have to church, if it is a pair of jeans then so be it.. I never wore pants to church, it was a personal preference. I did not think it would kill me to dress like I should a few times a week. which was a dress..
I also dress appropriate when I go out in public, I do not wear booty shorts, or see through tops,(with no bra) just the way I was brought up.. I think it has a lot to do with the way you were brought up.
I also believe that wearing shorts to a funeral home is poor choice of clothing.. but that is just me..
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