Thank you for your warning, Cake Lady. I am not sure why people are jumping all over you about this. I am glad that you reported this to campus security and the police. As a woman, I would be immediately on edge if a man opened his car door and was calling over to me, regardless if he said "excuse me" or not. Doesn't matter if he had good or bad intentions. In this day and age, you can never be too careful. Bad people come in all genders, colors, shapes, and sizes. I am all for helping people, just don't come too close or make me uncomfortable!