From little Dis stand point as being his mom, I understand his issues and being his mother there is more patience as I have tried to have explained to DH, that kids with adhd, odd, or ocd, ect.. have texture issues and you have work with the child and yes it is a very hard and it is tough. Most kids with adhd have a very hard time with change as well ( shoe's issue) he likes his shoes now and he does wear socks. I can say it took me years to wear long sleeves because I could not stand the way the sleeves felt on my arms so I wore short sleeves all year long...I have worked through my clothing