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Is this improper ex parte communication between Judge Tonny S. Beavers and the petitioner in this case? If this is improper what else was discussed that the Respondent was not made aware of? Is deposing the judge the only way to know for sure if the Petitioner had concealed other discussions? The Respondent was not made aware of the Petitioner and Judge #TonnyBeavers' ex parte discussion of Facebook postings. The Respondent was not made aware the Court instructed the Petitioner to bring Facebook postings to court. The Court abruptly overruled Respondent's objection and ended any further d -
It's a bold move because the NBP (narcissistic/borderline personality disordered parent) refused to cooperate over the span of 5+ years. The media misreported this and the children were actually removed to a therapeutic facility. You have to remove the children from the pathogenic parenting practices to begin their healing. Here is an interview with the dad in response to the mom's attempt to use the media to further her cause:
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Would Judge #TonnyBeavers be this bold? (Rhetorical question) This story is flaming hot in the world of family law. Is this judicial misconduct or did the judge do the right thing? Clearly the kids are alienated but should they be held in contempt or should the alienating mom. Whatever your position is, this is a bold move. Full Transcript
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No worries TP, if you pretend there isn't a problem, it will go away on it's own.
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If you ever thought gay marriage was about gay love, guess again. It was always about money. They just had to devise a way for the conservative public to go along with it. As fewer straight couples marry and more lawyers graduate law school, there was a niche that needed to be created and filled.
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I noticed you didn't answer the question. Are you a therapist now? The therapist I saw gave me a lot of materials to read and introduced me to many of the terms I learned. The therapist put me on the right path. Clearly you have no idea what I'm talking about because you are stalling rather than admitting there is actually a subject that exceeds the limits of your "omniscience".
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What are your feelings on attachment based parental alienation as opposed to the Gardnerian model of Parental Alienation Syndrome. Which would you be inclined to agree with?
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Of course the kids know I air the truth. But they don't frequent PCom. What I post on Facebook, twitter and other social media sites is far more accurate because I am not restricted by PCom rules on Facebook. If I lied about the situation they wouldn't tolerate it. Believe it or not, I filter what I air. The worst of it would shock most people beyond belief. I was always the disciplinarian when they were growing up. So no, I didn't let them do what ever they want. I always had to argue to enforce and follow the rules. Their mother always created exceptions and loopholes without my knowledg
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You are on a list of your own. Usually I don't reply to your comments and yes I now remember why. You cherry pick what you read and suppress what doesn't agree with you. You seem to make healthy responses but whether you practice what you preach is unclear. You seem to be an enabler.
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I've been to therapy. Often abusers refuse therapy and deny they need it. Guess who did that? As long as you are not obstructing your childrens' relationship with their father and each other I'd say you are not abusing them. If you are, I'd say you are an abuser.
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Absolutely, they lack the ability to change. They lack empathy and introspection. Emotional abusers also isolate the victim from opposing opinions. it is very similar to Stockholm Syndrome. They are also pathological liars that is why I have hours of recordings that archive the truth. They also have troubled childhoods and left home at an early age (15 years old). They often don't know others in their family because their family history is filled with alienation. Abusers were frequently abused themselves. I'm flat broke yet I have two of our adult children (daughters) that choose to live
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Let's say that I'm not squeaky clean, because I'm not (but I'm close to it). How come the only people around my daughter are those that are on her mother's approved list? Why can't she spend time with her sisters that live with me? One sister can't spend time with her sister at all. The other can't spend time with her sister unsupervised. This sister is the very sister that practically raised my youngest daughter from the time we split up (parentification) and now she can't even see her unsupervised. They all have the same mother. One thing is for sure. I never committed paternity fraud. She o
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Goldie abused the kids psychologically in my opinion and I take offense to you saying she didn't. Fair enough but the signs of trauma bonding are evident. Goldie and Kate clearly have an enmeshed relationship. Kate reflects the "fleas" (psychological term) of her mother's influence. The very things that I say you don't understand were not clear to me either. Not until I experienced it directly. I was actually an enabler of the abuse for the other two fathers for over a decade. One of whom doesn't even know he is a father. The other of whom thinks the first child of their marriage was h
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This is a masterful depiction of #ParentalAlienation by a good friend, Joe Barrow, using an episode of Desperate Housewives. This is how a parent gets into the minds of children. It's difficult to prove, especially when a judge suffers from a severe case of confirmation bias mixed with plain stupidity and a dash of corruption. Judges who in no way protect children don't need to be on the bench. It's even worse when parent hides behind a child and says everything is the child's decision which is true to parentification and adultification tactics (when you empower a child to make adult decis
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You actually have to spend time studying parental alienation to understand how it works fully. There is overt child abuse and there is covert child abuse. Just because you don't see physical wounds doesn't mean there isn't emotional abuse. This is not a child custody issue it is a child protection issue. You of all people should understand how psyops work. Most alienated parents and children don't understand what is happened to them until their mid 40s. That is why raising awareness is so important.
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No one is saying Bill is squeeky clean. What parent ever is? I'm almost squeeky clean that is why I can be critical of a judge publicly. IMO, my daughter's mom doesn't resist the urge to fire back because she's taking the high ground. She knows I can support everything I say with documents and witnesses. She also knows that what I haven't said publicly is a hundred times worse than what I have. I have lived a virtuous life and I'm going to cash in on the capital I've accumulated to help others. Bill didn't start a twitter war with his son. That was his son's doing. If Oliver and Kate found
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That does happen. Often that "new wife" cannot have children of her own and that is the root cause of her insecurity. Either way it is unhealthy for the children and the couple should go to family therapy or he probably should never have married her in the first place. A normal healthy mind would never interfere with a parent-child relationship. Children should never be exposed to pathogenic behavior. Unfortunately if you have enough money or influence, the court will stand aside and allow abuse of children and absolve themselves of any responsibility. The court is fully responsible becau
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I find child abuse to be far more disgusting. Especially when courts are failing to protect children. When there is any question of abuse of children it should be investigated thoroughly. If you can't get a corrupt court to listen, what are you supposed to do? Far too many parents do the unthinkable. So airing factual dirty laundry may be your only chance at justice in the secrecy of family court. "Sunlight is the best disinfectant." The difference between the assumptions that you make that he is lying and mine that he is telling the truth is that he can be sued for defamation if he can't
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What is the first thing an abuser does? Doesn't an abuser isolate the victim(s) from opposing opinions and views? Which of these parents executed interference of visitation/parenting time? There are no claims of physical or sexual abuse so what reason did Goldie give for obstructing visitation? Because she wasn't available or because she traveled with the children? If they were still married would that be an acceptable excuse? So because they aren't married anymore, now it is? Parental alienation is not a child custody issue it is a child PROTECTION issue. The brain has the same chemical r
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I would look at it this way, neither of them is squeeky clean. But neither of them should have been removed from their children's lives. Goldie has been with Kurt for 32 years but I highly doubt they didn't have an open relationship. They never did marry. Bill remarried and found stability and happiness. As I see it, Goldie was bitter because it didn't work out and she set out to erase bill from her life and that of her children. He did his part as far as visitation and Goldie didn't do hers. He may have been a lousy husband but that doesn't make him a lousy father. Courts are so scre
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You're not seeing this because, I guess, you've never experienced it. It appears to me that Goldie was/is unstable. Partying and self-medicating (risky behaviors) are tell-tale signs of individuals with personality disorders. Being very familiar with all of these behaviors and attempts to push parents (mothers and fathers) out of the children's lives is also characteristic of npd/bpd. Goldie and Kate's relationship seems very much enmeshed. Usually if the parent has a personality disorder, the children develop one two. Your post succeeds in confirming for those who are in the now of an npd/bpd
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Some people give up the fight. Not because they want to but because they are forced to. Some judges make it very clear that they don't give a flaming fire hydrant if one parent is excluded from their children's life or not. It's my job to expose misconduct and let people decide if a judge is dysfunctional. Often times, as in my case, a judge could care less if the siblings see each other either. If a judge is too lazy or corrupt to do his job he should find a living doing something else.
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And you oppose me simply to oppose me. If I told you the sun is shining you'd find a weather report that says it's going to start raining in 15 minutes.
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I recognize the book that is mentioned. "The New Jim Crow" by Michelle Alexander. I love her work. I'm going to have to watch this again before I can comment further. I am aware of the prison industrial complex. It is largely intertwined with the DV Industry and dads scapegoated as deadbeats for child support. Just like the #kids4cash scandal in Pennsylvania, there is a #dads4cash scandal. Those that can pay the child support make the state money through matching Title IV-D Federal funding incentives.Those that can't pay the child support fill jail cells. So if you are jailed for being $