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  1. DomesticViolenceByProxy
    No, I think you cannot forgive or heal until those you intend to forgive also agree to a cease fire. That cease fire may never come so you will have no choice but to fight. You absolutely should not "burn down your house to get rid of a rat". Hating someone is very much like "drinking poison and expecting the other person to die". And yes, I do agree, "happiness comes from within".
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    I absolutely agree with you in MOST instances however, being polite and swallowing pride didn't stop Jeffrey Dahmer from eating people. It didn't stop the last guy from being eaten anymore than it helped the first. He'd been eating people for a long time. Being polite wasn't going to make him stop. If we swallow some pride and ask ISIS politely to play nice, think they'll do it? If they don't do you think we should turn the other cheek? May be the French are overreacting by trying to bomb them out of existence? The French didn't ask for this fight did they? Didn't the whole Freedom Fri
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    Equality and justice for all is all I ask for. That is the American way is it not? Anything else is un-American. I've given clear examples of abuse of discretion, improper ex-parte communication and trampling of constitutional rights. I guess you're okay with this. I guess you think such things are examples of a system that "works".
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    I don't bend facts. I am brutally honest. One reason why I didn't accept your help is because I had enough integrity to recognize that you had healed and I have not. It seems your abuse has ended. Mine has not. I cannot completely heal until the abuse stops. The abuse doesn't stop until my daughter has balance in her life and both parents. My daughter's abuser was raised by a father who alienated his stepkids from their birth father for 30+ years. My daughter's mom alienated the oldest kids from their birth father for 20+ years. I was an unwitting enabler and I didn't figure it out until it ha
  5. DomesticViolenceByProxy
    I really don't owe you an explanation. I don't know what bone you have to pick with me but whatever. You stir up debate and then you say you don't want to discuss it anymore you're out of here. Poof, be gone. Just like you always do.
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    I'm glad it worked out for you. There is no refuting the information that I have made public. So clearly our local "family" court system doesn't work equally or justly for everyone.
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    He shouldn't have but we don't know the full story of what broke the father. I have seen our system of family law break many parents. Mothers and fathers.
  8. DomesticViolenceByProxy
    It is extremely sad when battlefield heroes become family court zeros. When they have fought for rights they cannot enjoy, it only adds insult to injury.
  9. DomesticViolenceByProxy
    I think Dr. Sirota is completely right. Pure and simple, what you give is what you get. Can't take it? Then don't dish it out.
  10. DomesticViolenceByProxy
    I don't hate judges, I hate corruption and collusion. I find it fascinating that so many can be more concerned about how information is presented than the information itself. Understand that everything that I say about PoS judges is dead on balls accurate. If it wasn't I'd be hauled into court on harassment charges. I'm on thin ice with the PoS judges that I criticize and they are under the ice waiting for it to break. You can't complain about society's decay when you are apathetic and antagonistic towards those that are willing to put themselves at risk to correct corruption. Now, if I h
  11. DomesticViolenceByProxy
    IMO the joke was distasteful given this tragedy affects many lives. It still didn't prevent you from becoming a hypocrite.
  12. DomesticViolenceByProxy
    I could be wrong but I recall someone saying something to the effect of... "I dont care about the situations, circumstances, obstacles, or problems in general of celebrities. They are not special people and they do not deserve my attention." Any idea who that might be?
  13. DomesticViolenceByProxy
    Thanks for sharing this story. I never read the details of this accident. Isabella went to school with my 16 yr old at PB Ritch Elementary or Dugan Elementary, years ago. Or both... She has a name that you could never forget. The other girl may have gone to school with my daughter too but I don't remember her. It's tragic and only worse when you are familiar with the victims. That the officer could be elected to and accept a city council seat so soon after just sets off red flags about him.
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    I'm not sure I understand your question. The most telling trait of a malignant narcissist or a person with Anti-Social Personality Disorder is a lack of empathy. I think some people are more inclined to be apathetic than lacking empathy entirely. I don't think an entire culture of psychopaths could exist even in varying degrees. Even if there were such a culture, I would expect that it would bring about it's own demise.
  15. DomesticViolenceByProxy
    Then again if it has a bill, feathers, swims on water and quacks, maybe a biologist should be consulted to confirm that it is not a horse.
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    The problem with leaving everything to professionals is that you don't have to be a professional to recognize symptoms. You may not know the causes, you may not be able to label a condition, you may not be able to prescribe a treatment, but you can recognize symptoms. I don't need a doctor to tell me what a bloody nose is. The doctor may say what caused it and what to do about it, but I know what it is. The other problem is many professionals will not diagnose a personality disorder without a dead body or some other criminal event because of the liability. Borderline Personality Diso
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    When the label "psychopath" comes to mind, most people think of the movie versions like Michael Myers, Jason or Norman Bates. In actuality, most psychopaths are not violent. Estimates range from 5-20% of the world's population are psychopaths. Of that number only 5% are incarcerated. Of the remaining 95%, odds are you know at least 1 psychopath who may even be your neighbor. The article below is a good read.
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    I can't think of an election where 18 year olds were the margin of victory, so I wouldn't be against it. Given equal protection under the law between genders, the selective service should be repealed.
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    Yes, and if that 17 yr old leaves home you as a parent can still be held liable for their actions even though they left home. The 17 yr old can leave but you can't put an unruly child out of your home until they are 18. I know many 18 year olds who vote as well but the vast super majority do not vote. We may not have a draft but young men still have to register for one. Why do you suppose that would be? There is a strong likelihood the child in foster care is still a minor until age 21 because of federal funding received for that child being in foster care. Family law is a racket.
  20. DomesticViolenceByProxy
    Most 18 yr olds don't vote unless it's for an awards show, American Idol or Dancing with the Stars. 18 year olds should not be drafted into combat service either.
  21. DomesticViolenceByProxy
    As many excuses are being made for the adult police officer as are being made for the child. Kids should know there are appropriate consequences to their actions. The officer's response was inappropriate. Abusing children that are disobedient in a non-violent manner is not appropriate, efficient or effective. If a parent had reacted to their own child in the same manner that child would be in the custody of CPS. This is a child that has experienced emotional trauma through no fault of her own and you think the appropriate response is to abuse the child? I'm certainly glad some of you don't
  22. DomesticViolenceByProxy
    I don't think you state my position acurately here. Abusers have a history of abuse whether personal or generational. Abuse is cyclic in nature. Abuse is not always sexual or physical. It always has a psychological and emotional impact.
  23. DomesticViolenceByProxy
    I'm not the least bit offended by your opinion. Your opinion keeps the discussion going. You must fit at least 5 of the 9 criteria for a diagnosis of NPD. If you fit 4 you may be a butthead but you still fall short of NPD. Keep in mind that everyone has narcissistic traits and tendencies. Narcissism is required for a healthy self-esteem. It's where you fall on the spectrum that brings it to the level of a disorder or not. You are welcome to your opinion but remember you don't have all of the facts. Maybe I don't present them in a manner you approve, but it works for me and my situation. I
  24. DomesticViolenceByProxy
    That didn't stop you from posting in this thread, lol.
  25. DomesticViolenceByProxy
    If that's your perspective of what I've written you and I clearly process information differently.
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