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9yrs old, she understood that it is bad for her and the dogs. Most likley already stated Mom, Dad please don't blow the smoke into my dogs mouth. I wonder at what grade does Minnisota schools do DARE? In that program the kids are taught that ALL achole (sp), tobbaco, and pills are drugs and are bad for you. The FACT that she had already been removed once should be a clue that she knew the parents are in the wrong. http://voiceofrussia.com/news/2014_05_21/Michelle-Obama-urges-students-to-report-on-their-parents-discriminative-comments-6071/ http://wizbangblog.com/2014/05/20/michelle-o

I'm so sorry. {{{hug for all of you}}}

Glad to see your feeling better. Postive thoughts, and prayers contuied to be said.

2 of my 5 have seizures. Once they get through this episode, she will be put on Phenobarbital (not expensive at all) most likely 2x a day for the rest of her life. Watch for break through seizures, and let the vet know. They will adjust the meds. Praying all is well for sweet Mona, and she can get back to her boy.

I let things get under my skin, and took it out on you. I know that many of us chosen (adopted) children have feelings of abandonment and betrayl. Especially those of us who are moms, or about to become moms. We don't understand how any one can give up their child. And I also relize that each person has to heal in their own time. Any way I'm sorry. Gog8tors

Huh? Wut? Our kids are so screwed........SMH

Very true.

This is so scary. These kids are basically non existant (I really wish my spell check was working) so if no one knows about them........

That and the child sex rings will continue unabated. God help them. Those kids are the ones that are really going to have to deal with abdonment issues. Sad. When will others see that we can't help the world? That while our heart brakes for these children, and the fact that they have been abandoned by their parents we can't help them to the detrrement of our own country. I guess that's what some want. I wonder how many other countries have this kind of illegal problem? If we are so bad why are we being inudated with these children?

I've seen that as well. My PHD friend said that when she was teaching the kids didn't have the ability to understand the math that she was using. They also couldn't believe that she would fail them. That's another topic.

Now that is truly scary. I'm not sure how the border patrol would be able to know the differance between the relatives, and the strangers.

I loved the Carol Burnett show when I was a kid. Love it even more now because I really "get" the jokes, you know what I mean.

I almost feel like this is either a set the kids up to fail deal, or something (not sure what yet) thing. I do know that looking at the required (suggested) course load for an athleate to be on a college track, this is a mess. Even the kids in the AP courses are struggling. How can the kids that are "avrage" and LD pass these courses?

Info that came across my FB feed https://docs.google.com/document/d/1KVZWKeKLqHPwRULLOkKykSafn6pg4P3i895vwPPyT7Y/pub

Dana, most of the time you and I agree about a lot of stuff. I'm not badgering her, and being on the brink of motherhood has nothing to do with the fact that she needs to deal with her abdonment issues. Whenever adoption is suggested she comes swooping in with her horror story. She needs to understand that not every one is going to have the same experiance. And , most women give up their babies because they do love them very much. Maybe I'm over hearing the poor pitiful me thing. But the truth is that adoption is much better then killing the baby. Not fetus BABY.

Well it's not like we don't already have enough kids in the foster care system. :/ Lets just add a few more, and that way all those American (mostly of a certian race) will abort their babies fetuses. I agree send them back. They were NOT unaccompained to get here.

But, on the other hand if SHE had been the one that wanted to terminate the pregnancy, and the husband didn't want her to, some would be up in arms about how dare he say anything. Because you know fathers are only important for the money they might provide. Oh, and I noticed that it is a fetues that WR referred to. But, s/he was giving an antdote about a full term baby. So I guess it just depends on who is making the referances.

Thank you for clearing up when a fetus is a baby. I wasn't sure what to call her (you know how those libs can be.) You have said that you maternal grandparents adopted you. I really don't want to go back two years to find the post. In any case I wish you luck, and happiness. Read your posts in this thread. It is glareing obvious that you still harbar much anger at your birth mother. And, if as you say she is harassing your parents then obviously she did want her lifestyle interrupted. I am sorry she didn't live up to the image you built for her. I know that living with the hope that you "r

I was thinking about him eariler. I hate to hear that he has had a setback. We'll be praying that he recovers very soon, and will be able to get back home to that wonderful family of his.

You are the one that posted in the past about how you wish it hadn't been your materanal grandparents adopted you. You were the one who stated that giving a child up for adoption is bad for the kid, because they (think) they know why their bio parent gave them up. I was just telling you that at some point (it would be good before your fetus is born) you need to forgive, and get rid of the anger you feel towards your bio parent. You don't have to have anything to do with them, but it will make you the better person, and make it so your not so negative. As far as your parents being harassed

You know the more I think about this, the more I relize that apperantly education is sorley lacking in this area. I mean really how many menstruating women (even those 47yrs old, yes DR) don't know that as long as they are menstruating they can still get pregant? Even me at 50, I can still get pregant because I'm not done with the monthly friend. As far as IUDs they suck. Had one after oldest was born. It caused more problems then anything else. What I find funny is even though I worked at a low paying job, I still mananged to get my pills, condoms, sponges, etc. all by my little ole lones

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That is your issue to deal with, and to accept. You are old enough to stop acting like a child, and accept that yes, it sucks knowing you weren't wanted, just as much as it sucks knowing that you weren't enough to make your parents stop being who they are just because you came into the world. Truly you need to forgive your parents for being who they are, and accept that there was nothing that will change them. Be grateful for the parents (even though they wern't exactly what you wanted) you had. They were the ones who didn't HAVE to take you in. They are the ones who didn't HAVE to let you get

It still does not negate the fact that adoption must be the first choice. I also know families that have adopted the older kids, as well as the babies. And, there are a lot of credits and such for adopting that offset any finicial concerns.