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If I could give one peice of advice to women who are divorced and with kids....it would be.
DON'T EVER SELL YOURSELF AS A WOMAN WITH "DIFFERENT" KIDS....QUIET, NEVER BOTHER YA, BLAH BLAH BLAH
JUST BE REAL FOR CRYIN' OUT LOUD, I DON'T KNOW WHY PEOPLE CAN'T DO THAT IN EVERY ASPECT OF LIFE.
FOR SOME REASON NOT ALL PEOPLE CAN CALL NORTH NORTH AND SOUTH SOUTH LIKE ME....JUST TELL THE TRUTH.
IF SOMEONE CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH (AND THERE'S A LOT OF THOSE PEOPLE).....
.....THEY ARE NOT WORTH HAVING.
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If your very lucky, one finds you.
STEAL ONE FROM A WOMAN WHO'S ALREADY FOUND ONE.
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I think it's insane you have to consider it, with a 15 year old child.
PUT A SLEEPING AREA IN THE CHUCKY CHEESE AND HOTEL ACROSS THE STREET, KIDS DONT' NEED TO KNOW
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WOULD YOU TAKE HER AS PRESIDENT IF SOMEONE GAVE YOU A $100,000
YUO GET A $100,000 AND EVERYONE ELSE IS STUCK WITH HER......
THINK ABOUT IT....HOW MUCH MORE DAMAGE COULD A BONAFIDE
SOCIALIST DO? AS OPPOSED TO THE OTHER SOCIALIST WANNABES
i THINK I COULD JUSTIFY IT IN MY MIND...WELL, MAYBE FOR A MILLION I COULD
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SOMEBODY SHOULD OPEN A BUSINESS....LIKE A HOTEL FOR ADULTS TO GET WITH THEIR NEW LOVERS
AND A ENTERTAINMENT TYPE PLACE FOR KIDS.
CALL IT A PARK AND PLAY
OR LAY AND PARK
OR WHATEVER
OF COURSE IT WOULD HAVE TO BE SET UP SO KIDS WEREN'T AWARE OF WHAT PARENTS WERE DOING AND VICE VERSA LOL
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I am that guy, single with a teen, dateing sux hard! I have "dumped" my daughter on someone in the middle of a date one time but NOT to get laid, to stop her(the daughter).
P.S. I don't know where my ex is, she never has the kid.
well, hey, I'm not blaming women who want to get their chassis lubed, we're all human.
but, yeah, I feel for ya, that wouldn't be any fun....of course you could always say to your daughter....
..."why dont' you spend the night with your girlfriend...you deserve some fun."
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::shakes head::
Nope. All of my life my feelings have either 1) Not counted for anything or 2) Been misconstrued. I'd rather keep it in side and just let people wonder than wind up getting hurt.
This is another reason why I'll probably wind up being a cat lady.
When I was about 20, I delivered pizzas, we had two cat lady customers, one always answered the door in purple lingerie....about 300 lbs.
The other one had about 20 cats, smelt God awful bad, wanted to talk forever after every delivery.....a combination
of a pack rat and a cat lady is a deadly combination.
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Benefit of the doubt can always get you in the end. I've learned that the hard way, and remain very guarded because of it. I have a friend that says 'You're a fortress honey...people can know everything about you and not have a clue how you feel'. SO true.
You've almost got 6300 posts....are you tryin to tell people how you feel ?????
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As a single man, I never judge anyone by whether they have children or not. I just find that selfish--which many who don't want children are.
The been married thing is another one that shouldn't be used to judge too quickly--or at all for that matter. I have dated several women who were divorced. More times than not it was due to domestic violence, drugs, infidelity, etc. Other times, as happened recently with me, you date someone who has been married 'almost' three times. You at first have to wonder on that one (poor choices, etc.)..which is why I always give the benefit of the doubt. Sometimes you are right--other times you find out they are eff'd up and a whore.
So, in short, I never judge upfront. I always try to get to know the person and weigh the situation collectively. Rash judgment could cost you 'the one'.
Well, you never date a woman and tell them what the definition of insanity is.
You do wonder why they married and divorced what seems like duplicates of one another.
If I married one alcoholic, I'd sure as heck not marry another one.
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Well, we have to remember we're talking about women here.
It would be worse if it were men....if a woman wants to get her chassis lubed just imagine how bad
it would be if men were in the same boat...takin' care of kids by themself.
Instead of waiting till the ex had the kids to have their fun, they'd be dumping their kids with
someone on a Wednesday night to go to the strip joint.
I wouldn't .....but a lot of men would.
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No doubt a MILF tends to be less clingy and more down to earth. And if the kids are cool and everyone gets along it can be lotsa fun.
I think a woman who has more kids is better to date in another way too.....they let the little things go....if you got kids tearing up
your house and actin' a fool and just makin dumb decisions left and right...grown up mistakes and slights are nothing at that point.
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I agree. I would rather have a MILF friend over someone who is so self centered they think everything is just about them
there does seem to be an impossible to please aspect to women with no kids....granted, most women I've dated had
kids but if they didn't, they seemed to be more difficult believe it or not.
BTW ~ there are many men that would enjoy that benefit
( unless, you want children)You know I always thought I'd fall in love and get married, I am a serious magnet for women
with hysterectomies though....seriously....my mom had one...maybe I'm lookin' for someone like
mom.....lol
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Well, it's been my experience with women in this age range and circumstances...they feel so burdened by their attractiveness in their mind to single men
that they sometimes go over board. I've had them tell me how little trouble their kids are and quiet they are and the whole nine yards.
I think women should be more confident, you got kids, that's natural, you should live your life with the belief a man will be lucky to have
you regardless of how many kids you have...a lot of women act far from confident though.
These are women who want a serious relationship and they tend to overanalyze the way a man will see their situation.
Then there are some women who just want their chassis lubed while their ex has their kids.
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I will say that it turns your stomach when you meet a woman and she instantly seems to care about you more
than her own kids....people are human and want relationships but there should be a little bit more unselfishness
when someone has kids.
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The big tuna not joining the falcons as repoted on espn just now
bummer, they need to get a good football man....not some friggin' lawyer like McKay.
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I'm all for the Falcons going after someone who is a great talent evaluator.
Sometimes fans can't objectively look at their own team, I'm very pragmatic,
I could tell you if girls in my family were the ugliest ones in a beauty contest
real quick.
I'm a Falcon fan and their talent level is probably in the lower quadrant of the
NFL. Rich McKay has had too many busts or if not busts...just blahs.
The talent of the Cowboys where Parcells just left is excellent and He is greatly
responsible for their stock of players now excelling.
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I have a question-just hypothetical question I was discussing earlier with somebody--
Let's say you met a woman that you really liked. You find out that she has been married before-early in life-twice. Does that turn your 'really like button' off?
Now, what if she's been married 3 times and has two kids. Keep in mind-you really like her. Same question???
This became a debate the other day and I want single guy opinions.
ETA: Does it change your opinion if you as the male has a child(ren) as well?
It doesn't bother me, I'm 44 though, so most women have been married and divorced with kids....
...on top of that I seem to be a magnet for women who've had hysterectomies (spelling)
I did date a woman with son in 20's with balding head early, that made me feel older than Methuzala
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HAPPY BIRTHDAY
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no Jesus talk,Joe? You are off your game.
I'm trying a new approach with Pcom....
How can you tell them..... Jesus is Lord ....
...before you let them "evolve' enough to know humans are higher on the food chain
...patience is a virtue.
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1. You have to be against capital punishment, but support aboortzion on demand.
2. You have to believe that businesses create oppression and governments create prosperity.
3. You have to believe that guns in the hands of law-abiding Americans are more of a threat than U.S. Nuclear weapons technology in the hands of Chinese and North Korean communists.
4. You have to believe that there was no art before Federal funding.
5. You have to believe that global temperatures are less affected by cyclical documented changes in the earth's climate and more affected by soccer moms driving SUV's.
6. You have to believe that gender roles are artificial but being homosexual is natural.
7. You have to believe that the AIDS virus is spread by a lack of federal funding.
8. You have to believe that the same teacher who can't teach fourth graders how to read is somehow qualified to teach those same kids about sex.
9. You have to believe that hunters don't care about nature, but loony activists who have never been outside of San Francisco do.
10. You have to believe that self-esteem is more important than actually doing something to earn it.
11. You have to believe that Mel Gibson spent $25 million of his own money to make 'The Passion of the Christ' for financial gain only.
12. You have to believe the NRA is bad because it supports certain parts of the Constitution, while the ACLU is good because it suppo rts certain parts of the Constitution.
13. You have to believe that taxes are too low, but ATM fees are too high.
14. You have to believe that Margaret Sanger and Gloria Steinem are more important to American history than Thomas Jefferson, Thomas Edison, and A.G. Bell.
15. You have to believe that standardized tests are racist, but racial quotas and set-asides are not.
16. You have to believe th at Hillary Clinton is normal and is a very nice person.
17. You have to believe that the only reason socialism hasn't worked anywhere it's been tried is because the right people haven't been in charge.
18. You have to believe conservatives telling the truth belong in jail, but a liar and a sex offender belonged in the White House.
19. You have to believe that homosexual parades displaying drag, transvestites, and bestiality should be constitutionally protected, and manger scenes at Christmas should be illegal.
20. You have to believe that illegal Democrat Party funding by the Chinese Government is somehow in the best interest to the United States.
21. You have to believe that this message is a part of a vast, right wing conspiracy.
22. You have to believe that it's okay to give Federal workers the day off on Christmas Day ..........but it's not okay to say 'Merry Christmas.'
Don't try to speak the truth, you'll confuse people..
...just make posts asking where you can pick up a cute puppy.....
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Jesus is Lord
Don't be a liberal and swim upstream.
Life wil be easier if you can accept the truth.
If I've said it once I've said it a million times, liberals look at life and try to swim
upstream...foolish, but that's what they do.
The difference between liberals and conservatives is
Conservatives believe God is God
Liberals believe Govt. is God.....that's why they're so miserable.
Talk about a recipe for misery...putting your faith in Government.
Single man opinions~~
in Internet Cafe
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lol...well, that' another topic altogether...I think our society is overmedicated in general.