Hey sweet lady, Waving back! I agree with DHK 100%.
I also think that people who declare suicide selfish have never been without hope, or felt backed up against the wall where they feel there is no way out. Just for one minute, these people should stop and think how very sad and alone people who have committed or tried suicide were. It concerns me that your saying that you understand why people do it now. I hope that your not suicidal. Please, please let someone know if you are.
I am so sorry your in so much pain and mental anguish. If you need help checking out these resources,