I am sorry for Brenda's passing but feel comfort she is not suffering anymore. They say the hearing is the last to go and am certain she could hear you. She knew she had many good friends and you reconfirmed that by being there with her.
I have also known that very thing when someone I helped with was clinging to life by very little. She was waiting for her out of country son to come in but it took a while for him to get there. Many will not pass on either, if someone is in the room. Its sad but true. Lighting a candle for Brenda and hoping her family can find the way through lif