You are right. As much as it must hurt to lose a parent it is just wrong to lose a child. I came close to that with the Chancester. Thankfully, he hung in and decided to stay with us.
I hope for you to never have to go through losing one of us. I am just sorry for you. By the time I know how you feel right now, there will be no way for you to know it.
BTW BabyGirl lost a tooth tonight.