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  1. My Dr refuses to give me any meds, I am considering changing Dr's,

    (ok Jamie and cicily dont bash me yet) I have called her and she just says ride her, put her on the dryer, I have done that., I do watch what I eat, nothing hurts me, s oI cant imagine anything I am eating hurting her if it dosent hurt me??????????

    WHAT!?!?!?! Switch docs!! your doc sounds like a nut. Tell doc to sit with baby for a while. I recomend West Atl Peds. Their number is (770) 729-9292. Located on 120. Best docs in the world!! Especially dr young.

     

    I LOVE Dr. Young...he's the man! :wub:

     

    Also, are you sure this is Colic and not something like reflux? My twins both had reflux and did what you are explaining. Until they were put on meds, they'd actually "stop breathing" cause of the reflux (talk about calling the Dr.s freaking out)

     

    I've been with Dr. Carter since 1993! Love him. My son, now 6, had colic, we also tried everything. How old is your child? One day, during a particularly bad time, for both my son and me, I took my son in for an appointment. I must have looked really bad, because I got a prescription (not the one mentioned above), but later learned the RX was risky! (It wasn't Dr. Carter, or any of the current Drs.) BTW I really like Dr. Young too. Hang in there, it will pass, but, as a result of the colic, I ended up rocking my son to sleep everytime he closed his eyes for at least the first year and a half of his life, so he was totally spoiled, and we've just gotten him where he'll go to sleep completely on his own. He still shows up in our bed from time to time. One day, between 10 - 12 weeks, it really will just disappear, and your happy baby will emerge. My niece, a day care director, swears that colicky babies make the happiest children, and my son has proven that.

  2. Please help, I have a 4 month old English Bulldog that was a gift from my Aunt to my son. We want her to be an inside dog, but she is proving very difficult to housebreak. We've had her about 5-6 weeks now and she's showing no signs of preferring to do her business outside. In fact, she will come in from outside and use the bathroom!

  3. Are you asking about sealed or unsealed hardwood? I ask because I've had a real problem in that my hardwood floors are waxed, and not sealed. And it is next to impossible to find a product that doesn't say specifically that it is for sealed hardwood. Sorry to ride your coattails, but if I can get an answer with you, I'd really appreciate it. Most of the time I simple use a microfiber mop that is damp with only water.

  4. Some of the info on her is not completely accurate. Feel free to PM me. 17-23% is current standard for one child, and yes, the judge can take other children into consideration. Child support guidelines are changing January 2007, may or may not effect you, each circumstance will be different.

     

     

    are you a lawyer?

     

     

    No, Family Law Paralegal for more than 15 years now. Been in several seminars recently regarding incoming child support guidelines, and have very familiar with old ones.

    oooooo. Let me ask you then, my brother pays 20% to his ex-wife and now has another baby on the way with his girlfriend (who I hate). So will she get less or more or the same.

     

     

    Generally, child number 2 would receive less because child number 1 is supposed to be 1st responsibility. However, if his income has increased substantially since Order for 1st child, it could be more.

  5. well he pays to his kids with the ex wife and now has a pregnant girlfriend and does she and the ex recieve for each child or does it vary with each woman.

    The judge will take into consideration the other child. Now if he is behind with #1, that will not be good for him.

     

    But just expect 20% no matter how many other kids.

     

    Actually, child support can go up to 32% of gross, depending on how many children it's being paid for.

  6. Some of the info on her is not completely accurate. Feel free to PM me. 17-23% is current standard for one child, and yes, the judge can take other children into consideration. Child support guidelines are changing January 2007, may or may not effect you, each circumstance will be different.

     

     

    are you a lawyer?

     

     

    No, Family Law Paralegal for more than 15 years now. Been in several seminars recently regarding incoming child support guidelines, and have very familiar with old ones.

     

    It just drives me crazy when inaccurate information is floating around!

  7. I think there are probably a few people that I at least may have something in common with (our kids may be at the same school), and I probably know some of you, I'm a 82 graduate of MHS in Powder Springs and have been in Paulding since 1991, after spending most of my life in Cobb.

  8. Cabe, we were all strangers when we started posting on pcom, the more you post the more you will get to know these members on here, and there are some really great members on here that you will be able to call friends.

     

    Yes we would like for you to post more often. before you know it, you will be involved in personal conversations also.

     

    as we get to know each other we do visit with other members, at times.

     

    so jump right in.

     

     

    once you get the fever you will have to join the 12 step pcom program. :rolleyes:

     

    which none of us have completed yet :lol:

     

    we would like to hear your opinions also, :)

     

     

    12 Step Program?

     

    splain Lucy! :lol:

     

     

    QUOTE(Nikki @ Apr 26 2006, 07:12 PM)

     

    I'm one of those people who read and RARELY post. Does that count?

     

    Oh and "HELLO"

     

     

    I know the feeling! :lol:

     

     

    I couldn't tell ya, I have never made it past the first step yet :lol:

     

    Thanks for inviting me in, I'm still trying to figure some of this out, for example I don't know how y'all get all the extras on here!

  9. Some of the info on her is not completely accurate. Feel free to PM me. 17-23% is current standard for one child, and yes, the judge can take other children into consideration. Child support guidelines are changing January 2007, may or may not effect you, each circumstance will be different.

  10. Sorry for the goof ups, but Momstradamus touched my heart so, I kept messing up, I rarely find an outlet for my feelings that seem to stay locked up, but I too lost a precious beautiful child. He was only 2 months old and my first born. The most valuable lesson I learned is not to judge another person, particularly how someone processes their grief. And valuable lessons about what not to say to others I may come into contact with who have lost a loved one, young or old. God Bless each and every one of you.

  11. Oh this was one of the hardest things I have ever responded to on this board. And if you are sensitive to these things you might want to skip this post because it has been 10 years.

     

    Many have mentioned having still born and taking the phots can be a very healing process. I can understand why someone did this but let me touch on what happens when your child dies at 4 months old.

     

    You have bonded, you have see her smile and had her respond to your voice. The dreams of what your daughter will be and the memories of what she has done are only just beginning. However, she isn't old enough to have done many things to remember other than baths, diaper changes and an occasional milestone. There isn't a lot of money for pictures so there are only a few and after the first few weeks you panic and think you might forget what she looked like. Then another month goes by and the only good picture you had is a mess because you slept with it and held it everytime you cried. You blame yourself for not having her picture made professionally before she died.

     

    The first year is gone and you have quit going to her grave and crying for hours. You no longer panic at the fear of not remembering her face because you remember all the horor that was her final moments and now you are angry. There is really no peace with the fact that your daughter is not here anymore. You question why over and over again. And just like everyone else in the world who has lost someone (espically a child) in their life you either survive and get on with life or you ruin your life.

     

    Ten years later you wonder what she would have been like now and are thankful for every second you got to spend with that precious child while she was on this earth. You pray that you do enough right in your life so you can get to Heaven and know that she is there. You take solace in God's grace, mercy and unending forgiveness and know that she is with him. And when you ask could you do this I say YES. Even if I didn't know then, I know now! I would have at least had that to put on my wall rather than the tattered 4 x 6 picture with her smiling.

     

    God, Thank you so much for my darling daughter. Thank you for your forgivness when I asked why. Be with everyone who has lost a child and give them peace, strength or just simply, your will in their life be done. - Amen

     

    Sydni Elaine - I miss you and I love you.

     

    ----Thanks for the little window to let this go. I hope I didn't offend anyone.

     

     

    Oh this was one of the hardest things I have ever responded to on this board. And if you are sensitive to these things you might want to skip this post because it has been 10 years.

     

    Many have mentioned having still born and taking the phots can be a very healing process. I can understand why someone did this but let me touch on what happens when your child dies at 4 months old.

     

    You have bonded, you have see her smile and had her respond to your voice. The dreams of what your daughter will be and the memories of what she has done are only just beginning. However, she isn't old enough to have done many things to remember other than baths, diaper changes and an occasional milestone. There isn't a lot of money for pictures so there are only a few and after the first few weeks you panic and think you might forget what she looked like. Then another month goes by and the only good picture you had is a mess because you slept with it and held it everytime you cried. You blame yourself for not having her picture made professionally before she died.

     

    The first year is gone and you have quit going to her grave and crying for hours. You no longer panic at the fear of not remembering her face because you remember all the horor that was her final moments and now you are angry. There is really no peace with the fact that your daughter is not here anymore. You question why over and over again. And just like everyone else in the world who has lost someone (espically a child) in their life you either survive and get on with life or you ruin your life.

     

    Ten years later you wonder what she would have been like now and are thankful for every second you got to spend with that precious child while she was on this earth. You pray that you do enough right in your life so you can get to Heaven and know that she is there. You take solace in God's grace, mercy and unending forgiveness and know that she is with him. And when you ask could you do this I say YES. Even if I didn't know then, I know now! I would have at least had that to put on my wall rather than the tattered 4 x 6 picture with her smiling.

     

    God, Thank you so much for my darling daughter. Thank you for your forgivness when I asked why. Be with everyone who has lost a child and give them peace, strength or just simply, your will in their life be done. - Amen

     

    Sydni Elaine - I miss you and I love you.

     

    ----Thanks for the little window to let this go. I hope I didn't offend anyone.

  12. The emails are a good idea, I've learned that some metro counties are recommending that sex offenders move to such counties as Paulding because of the restrictions that are now placed on where they can live, example, how close to schools, children, etc. Rural counties provide more places for them to live "within the guidelines". There is now almost nowhere in Fulton County that a registered sex offender can live.

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