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I do have primary physical custody. I haven't thought about being with him again since I left in the fall of 05. He never was home then and wasn't active in their lives or mine so I decided I needed to due what was best for all of us. At first I was glad to hear he was seeing someone ... that meant that he wouldn't try to make me feel bad anymore. When we first got divorced he started to act like the father I had always wanted for my children. He spent a lot of time with them and I encouraged it. But things have really took a turn for the worse over the past few months. He has became a liar, an alcoholic and just a bad parent. Has even drove my kids after drinking way to much. He even had the nerve to tell me that I was crazy when he tried to put both of my kids in the front seat of his two seat corvette that he got when we got divorced. I told him that it is not safe nor legal. He thinks he is so much above the law!!! Well, guess what he got pulled over by the cops for speeding and got a ticket not only for speeding but for having both of my kids in the front seat together. He has a truck with proper seating and seat belts for them but he is trying to look so cool and young and doesn't think about the safety and welfare of our kids. He got really mad one day when he showed up to pick them up and I refused to let them go because he was in his car. What mother would allow their children to go with him in a car meant for two not three??? I love my kids and am not going to allow them to be put in harms way.
Then to make it even worse his whole family hates me and tells my kids that I'm the reason for all this etc. My children don't even want to see their grandparents,aunts,uncles etc because they too lie for him and to them.
Gosh I feel bad for venting so much but I needed to get this all out. It kills me inside every day.
He just doesn't understand how great our kids are and is missing so much.
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I don't talk bad about him to the children at all which is why I think they talk to me about how they feel about the situtation.They don't like to talk to him because he says I brain wash then etc into thinking he is the bad guy. He says things like, its your mother's fault because she divorced me etc. and tries to make them think its my fault that he is not active in their lives.
I didn't have my dad in my life growing up even though my mom and him were married and he lived with us. He was never home and didn't have a clue about any of us kids. I know the hurt I felt and still feel and I think that is why I feel even worse that now it is happening to my own children. We have joint custody and they live with me but if they only get to see him 2 or 3 times a month now. It just stinks as a mother to watch your children hurt.
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Just wondering who has dealt with the problem of their ex not picking up their children when it is their scheduled weekend/holiday etc.
I am having a very hard time trying to get my ex to spend time with the children now that he (who is 31) is dating a girl (who is 20) Here's what is going on.
He never bothers to call and inform me that he isn't coming to get them or anything.
He tells them that he'll see them when its his weekend. Then never shows and doesn't call.
My children who are 10 1/2 and 9 see what is happening and asks me if they have to even go with him on his weekend because they are sick of getting their hopes up and then him having a million reasons why he can't pick them up. I tell them hey that's still your dad and one day he'll realize what he is doing and wake up.
Since the new girl is in his life he has stopped calling the kids and won't return their phone calls when they do call him.
I work a job that revolves around their schedule so I can raise my kids and be able to spend as much time with them as possible. I am home every day when they get home from school and I always get them off to school in the mornings. He is not active in the education at all. He doesn't even know yet that his daughter made her school's News Team as an anchor for next school year. This is a big thing for her and he doesn't even care.
He tries to shower them with money when he does see them to try to "Make Up" for the missed time. They don't care about the money they want to see their DAD!!!
He didn't come get them or even bother calling them on Easter this year due to him being preoccupied with this girl.
He spent their entire Spring Break with her in Panama City and missed spending his half a week with them.
What makes it worse is he lied and said he was out of town working. He cut his phone off the entire time he was gone. Never called my kids back when they called to see where he was and if he was going to get them or not. They called his girlfriend and she lied to them and said she didn't know where he was and hadn't talked to him.
A friend of mine called me and told me that this girl posted pictures of their week in Florida together on her myspace page. I went to look and couldn't believe it. I believed him when he said he was out of town working as well. I feel like he is a different person now and thinks he doesn't have children.
Then to make matters worse he only wants to talk to me when he does call to tell me how he wants to get back together blah blah blah when I start dating. He tries to make me feel bad for dating. He makes them feel bad if I start dating and 50 questions them all the time about my business.
But yet he continues to lie to them ever chance he gets. Why is it OK that he dates someone and doesn't spend time with the children but if I date it's a bad thing? My poor daughter asks me the other day if I was going to be the old lady who lives by herself with 100 cats to keep her company when they got older. That made me sad. I do want to date but am not ready due to the hurt I suffered in my marriage. I have a broken heart and I know that in time it will heal but I'm not ready yet.
Why do so many people do this to their children when they start dating someone????
As a mother it hurts me to see them sad when he does this to them.
What should I do?? I want him to be part of their lives but when should I just throw in the towel and say hey its his loss???
Thanks for letting me vent!!!!!
He was supposed to get them today and didn't and to see the hurt on their faces broke my heart.
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Both of my children were out of school from being sick. The youngest came home early from school on last Tuesday because he started running a low grade fever and by Wednesday both had whatever the virus going around was. They stayed at home the rest of the week. Pediatrician said it should take 5-7 days to work its way out of their systems and that meds won't be any good.
They woke up this morning ready to get out of the house and play. They stayed in the house all week because they were throwing up and didn't feel like getting out of their rooms.
Now if I can just keep from getting sick
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Please help the illegal pratice of downloading music online.
The artists are getting robber by websites that steal their music.
Go to www.burnlounge.com/motormouthmusic to download your music.
It's 99 cents a song and legal. Half of the cost of each song goes directly to the artists.
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It is illegal to download music without paying for it.
Limewre and other sites like this are stealing music from the artist. This is no different than stealing from your family etc.
Not to mention that those sites will also give your computer viruses.
Please help stop illegal downloading of music and support the artists that put their heart and soul into their work.
Do it the right way.
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I am truly sorry for your loss. My stepfather of 25 years passed away on December 27th and it has been really hard. Personally, even though I didn't want to see him at the wake, I am really thankful I went. It was my chance to say goodbye one last time and it gave me closure.
I literally have a lifetime of memories and I just try to cherish them in my heart and mind. It's hard for me to see pictures of him now but when I am ready, I am going to try to channel my pain through art. I want to make a collage of photos I have of him or paint his portrait. Something I can keep and then pass on to my kids.
You'll find your outlet when you are ready. My thoughts are with you <3
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I knew Randy very well and this person was there for me when I cried over losing Randy. In fact Randy had just did the tattoo of mine this past summer with the initials of the person who just died. I'm glad I got this done before both him and Randy passed. My friend was only 30 years old and was a local actor. I loved him a lot. We both knew how we felt about each other. I found out tonight at the viewing that I was the last person he talked to. That stung bad. But I am so thankful to have had that conversation. At his viewing I hesitated to even go up to the casket but only moments before it was time to close I did, I didn't recognize the person I saw. I couldn't say good-bye to him like that.
I'm attaching his photo here. As well as a link to a local acting website that explains the loss.
http://www.atlantafilms.com/cgi-bin/yabb/Y...;num=1168712086
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I just lost someone very very dear to me. I've never experienced a loss this great ever.
I'm so in shock right now and cannot begin to explain my pain.
This person was such a big part of my life and now they're gone.
I can't sleep, eat or anything.
My question for you guys is how do you begin to recover from such a tragic loss??
I'm so conflicted about even attending the services.
Not because I don't want to because I wouldn't want to miss it for the world but because I don't want to break down in front of everyone. I loved him so very much.
Can everyone just say a little prayer to give me the strength I need to attend the viewing tomorrow and on Tuesday for the funeral.
Thanks
Julie
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Actually this is what I do for a living. I LOVE ACTING!!!!
I have two agents in Atlanta. Arlene Wilson and Real People.
I also have two agents in North Carolina and one in Tennessee.
Shawna,
I told ya once my brian would work I'd remember!! Actually after getting on set at 8am and staying until 10pm last night I heard his name so much I couldn't forget it.
His wife was on set too and let me just say for the record what a gosh darn cute couple.
They said they had been married for over 35 years.They were so cute and still very much in love
I also remember every Hooter's Girl's name that was there.
They were sweeties!!! Only 2 out of the 8 there were from GA the others flew in from several states including Maine,Florida and Utah.
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I shot a commercial today for Hooters and guess who was in it with me???
Basketball Legend Dick Vitale!!!
He was so super cool
I'll post pictures as soon as I get them from my friend.
Look for the Commercial to air sometime in February.
And before anyone asks no I was not a Hooter's girl.
Look for me I was in a green shirt and should have lots of air time.
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I hope this is true.
The trailor park has been a drug infested place for a really long time now.
This land is where the original Aiken Home was. It was a beautiful antibellum type home.
So very very true!!! Wonder why the cops never do anything when they know as good as anyone that that is going on there. I know alot of subdivisions throughout the county that are also so drug infested.
What happened to people? Everyone is on meth or someone in their family is.
I wonder why nobody listens to the DARE program at school.
Drugs are so not cool but yet so many people go out and do them anyway.
I had my sister get on that stuff and it broke my heart.
I know to many people who ruined their lives over that and it just doesn't make since to me.
Anyone know what they are going to put there?? Will the gas station stay there??
It is a horrible site to see when driving down 61. It use to not look so gosh awfully bad but they have moved in alot of junkie homes. If this were a subdivision would they allow it to look this bad?? And for so long??
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Does that place still have gypsies living there? There use to be a bunch of them.
They have all moved last I heard.
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Gosh..this is so terribly sad.
Another GREAT taken too soon.
He was in a few films that we did this year and last.
He will be missed!!!
Debbie and Sage I'm sorry for your loss.
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South Paulding Middle School?
Yup South Paulding.
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OMG!! I went to school with Jamie and we hung out alot in middle school.
God so many people that went to school with me are now gone.
So sad indeed. Prayers are said for her family.
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Omg...I tried to remove old wallpaper this summer in my kids bathroom as well as the downstairs bathroom and man alive it was the hardest thing ever. I tried the DIF and also hot water but after hours and hours with hardly anything done I decided to just go buy a bucket of sheet rock mud and go over all the walls. After sanding and a quick coat of paint the rooms looked so much better.
I hate wall paper and at the time cursed the inventors of it. Why oh why would you do that to your home knowing one day you would have the pain in the butt time trying to take it off.
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Actually I'm guessing it has been 3 years now but my daughter broke her wrist at school after a fall from the monkey bars. Both the Radius and the Ulna bones had been snapped right in half at her wrist. Clean break so no bruises or swelling at all. At first I thought she had just sprung it or something but after about an hour of complaining/crying in pain (something she hardly ever does) I knew it was more serious.
Made a trip to the ER and sure enough it was broke. I felt so bad!! It was her right wrist as well. She wore a splint for about a week, then a long cast all the way up to her shoulder for 3 1/2 weeks and then a short cast up to her elbow for another 3 1/2 weeks. Glad that is over. I hated seeing her like that.
Hope you have a quick recovery
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Still no sign of her.Heading to the shelters soon.
Has anybody had a problem with their ex's
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Thank you guys for all the great feedback.
I have decided to take the kids to Florida for the week to have fun.
We have also decided that we will no longer call him to try to make him involved in their lives.
If he wanted to be involved then he would be the one calling them not the other way around.
Some people never change and sometimes letting them go is the hardest thing to do but at this point I believe my children will be much more productive and happier without being let down and hurt again and again.