That is very true. critty!! I went to lunch today with this on my mind and ended up crying in my car for 15 minutes over it. I just don't understand "death" it is such a horrible thing to deal with. There is no comfort, just that it's life which doesn't at all ease any pain.
I still struggle with my father's death who past away 15 yrs ago so I know there are many challanging moments for this family and I guess being a mother just makes me even more sensitive to the issue.