Smitty - like I said earlier in my posts - I like to get the last word, so hear it goes...You did not know Tara, you did not know her family, friends, what she was made of....if you did - you- I can honestly say -would not be a friend- - that too may be cold hearted, I just can NOT believe that you would come on here and say the things you said - yes, it is your opinion, but you need to learn when to keep your MOUTH SHUT - there are times to talk and times to shut up....that is a valuable lesson - and I hope from all of these wonderful posts about TARA that you will keep it in mind for the ne