Mrs. Avalon, I remember that thread you mentioned, and as I was and am "kinda" going through some of the same things, I was also hurt. I was hoping to find some advice on that subject. I am not going to dig the old thread up, but know that you weren't alone.
Pubby, I loved your post, and Hey!!, I could understand it..lol
joking aside, I agree with you. Hope you get to feeling better quickly.