Exactly. In these cases, the "victim" usually says she is older than she really is. This man is not sick, he has merely been set up by a silly young girl. Really, all he has done is cheated on his wife by cybersexing with another woman. In which case is a private matter between husband and wife.
Keep your judgments to yourself. The investigation has barely begun and soon the truth will come out. In the meantime, pray for this family and give the man the benefit of the doubt. YOU are not God, you do not know exactly what happened.
In other words, he is innocent until proven guilty.
