Again, the concern is that home will not hold all of the people that would show up, it's not really an issue of trying to be impressive with the party for ourselves or our son it's about having enough room to put the number of people we're inviting..... We'd just plan to have it at home in the yard or in the garage except it's in the beginning of February and if some of you haven't noticed it's been stupid cold more days than it's been warm.
Thank you everyone for your kind comments and suggestions, but for those of you with "parenting advise", who asked you?