You sound like me!! I checked the 10,000-20,000 box but my wedding cost $30,000. I did not want to check the "way too much" one because I felt that it was money well spent! I would do the entire day all over again, no changes. My husband and I have been married for 9 years now and people still talk about how much fun they had at our wedding. It was truly a day we will never forget!!!