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storms are finally here in the south paulding... my scaredy cat of a dog just ran and crawled up under the covers
I'm gonna be under the covers too.... or in the closet.. I'm a scaredy cat... I am PETRIFIED(sp?) of storms!!!
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I'm in Douglasville, off Fairburn Rd and it just rumbled here. I quickly turned to a weather channel, I am TERRIFIED of storms! I am starting to panic....
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Good job CC!
haha...the greatest quote...
"Well son I'm sorry. I don't have the money to feed you, Oprah said that we could eat."
Thanks a lot Oprah!!
I agree.... best quote ever!!!we were in the six flags area my daughter was in a small store and she asked for help and they said go away cracker , I'm busy. she just clapped her hands and said woo hoo mommy I am a salty tasty treat. they laughed at her and said can I please have some help. I was like lawd child your gonna get us shot... but they helped and laughed
That is so funny and so not funny! LOL! I wouldn't have known whether to roll out laughing or smack that associate!Maybe Oprah will buy everyone free chicken now, she bought cars before!
I really hope this video gets to Oprah and the news.
fantastic work... gave me my laugh...
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Go to bounceair.com. They are commerce members here and have very reasonable rates. They also come and setup and then take down the inflatables for you.
THANKS!
I've been searching google but all the ones I find charge the same amount but you have to pick it up and setup it up then take it down and return it. I won't have time for that with a party to get ready for.
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Bump...
Any one??
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There is a commerce member on here.... they are new...not sure of the name...
Try the directory on the front page!
Thanks, I tried to look up some on here but had no clue how to do it.
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I need to rent a moonwalk or some kind of inflatable for my son's 4th birthday party. I know there is a place in Hiram, does anyone know of any more companies or recommend anyone? His party is less than 2 weeks away so I need to find one fast!
Is the Unlimited Party Rental place in Hiram a member on here?
Please recommend anything if you guys know of some places!
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My POS ex-husband owes over $30,000 in arrears. My girls are 26 and 23. He paid really good for a while through income deduction, but the problem was Child Support Recovery. He was stupid enough to get married to a woman who was much less than faithful after we divorced. She had two kids by two different men while she was married to my ex. He is an idiot!!! He always suspected that neither of the kids were his but wouldn't do anything about it. So, when they divorced, she filed for child support recovery. Well--CSU would send the money taken out of his check for my kids to her. She was getting my money and hers, too!!! I complained over and over and was told they couldn't do anything about it because it was they way their computer worked. BS!!!
Well--he got hooked on meth and lost his $70,000 a year job. So for several years, nobody got anything. He finally got another job and then got laid off. They suspended his license and then got in fight with his non-biological son. He's in jail now and they won't set a bond until he pays some towards his child support. He only has to pay $300 and they will even reinstate his license. He was getting unemployment and they were taking some of the child support out. But he only owes me arrears so I get a whopping $17.00 a month!!! No, I don't need the money. I let it collect up and use it to buy stuff for my grandchildren.
Now--my son-in-law has three other kids besides my granddaughter. He had a period of time back in 2006 and 2007 when he was out of work. Once he got another job, he immediately started paying again. During that time period when he was out, his ex took out a warrent. He got pulled over for a traffic violation and is not in jail. Even though he has paid regularly since he went back to work, they won't even take that into consideration. He can't pay if he doesn't work. And he's lost his job because he's in jail. They want $4,000 before he can get out. And he's that's all he's behind. They want the whole amount and there's no way!!! My daughter is having a horrible time because she's going to school and trying to work to pay her bills and keep her apartment.
The court system isn't fair when it comes to child support. They should have the same rules for everyone. Once again my daughter is getting screwed because of child support.
All men should be made to pay but it should be the same rules for everyone.
Agreed but it sure doesn't seem to happen that way.
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I went to high school with your mom. Very happy it turned out well for you.Shes a pretty good woman
Shes got a pretty awesome daughter too...
Were just a like so we buttheads a lot... we act alike and Ive heard a few million times how I look just like my Mother.. oh the joys of being stopped by people saying you have to be her daughter...
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Once he catches up...I have no problem what so ever with him getting a modification. They won't let him as long as he has arrears. I hope he can get his credit all situated so y'all can have a really good life. I don't need more than what's fair. I don't have a fancy life either. Don't need one. I've been blessed and I'm thankful for what I have. It didn't turn out exactly how I thought it would...but I'm happy. I don't want any less for y'all. Maybe they realize that your ex is a POS too...I don't know. But they can't make him get a job. His time will come....just don't stress and lose your faith in the meantime. Things happen for a reason. Maybe there's a good reason that he's not in your life at all anymore. I hope it all works out.
We have a great life, no complaints. You know that he tries and he would do anything for his daughter, money or no money, as would I. This wasn't meant to come across as me thinking be deserves special treatment for missing payments, I think he deserves what he gets as much as Jayden's sperm donor does. But they won't work with someone who had a unexpected issue happen that in turn cause a lot of problems that have all, thankfully, been resolved, that tries, that works, that would get their child whatever they needed and work with someone who hasn't attempted to pay since his child was born.
I didn't mean for that to upset you or start problems. I was just making an example of how they came after Craig and didn't back down and he works and pays and does the best he can and they give someone who is the complete opposite endless chances and in turn turns out the same... nothing.
I appologize if it offeneded you or anything, it was not pointed at you & honestly had nothing to do with you. Just the whole situation makes me so angry. Its a waste of my time, the courts time and I am tired of it. I don't want his money, I want nothing from him. However, he has a responsibility that he has to take care of. I didn't go to OCSE for kicks - it was required when I applied for help. I knew it was a lost cause.
Anyhow, oncce again, it wasn't aimed at you and had nothing to do with you, I appoligize.
Hope there are no hard feelings!
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Madea-
Thank you. My Mom, where ever she is, surprised she hasn't posted, Shippwreck (her name on here) is my mom, was right... if only I would have listened.
I have no regrets, I believe everything happens for a reason. It was a bad time in my life but I got through and got stronger and in turn got a beautiful son who I would give my life for and if it wasn't for him, who knows where I would be.
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And I don't... just irritated that a dead beat Dad who makes no effort they help and give chances too but yet my fiance' misses one payment & he has no license & gets no help. He pays every week (comes out of his check) and they crap on him but a dead beat who makes no effort they give the world too.
Um....not exactly.
The only reason Child support recovery got involved in the first place was because he refused to pay anything. Then he lost his license because he was over $3000.00 behind. He still doesn't have insurance on her like he's supposed too. We do. As long as he's working and not making up excuses as to why payments haven't been received....I don't say much. I realize that he has you and Jayden to support too....I know you hate to see that money come out of his check. I hate to see Joey's child support leave every month. But I understood that when I married him. Being semi in your shoes....Craig is a really good dad....but I would keep on and keep on about your ex. If nothing else...he might not ever give anything....but he'll never have anything either. What goes around comes around. Best wishes...don't give up.
Hmm, you took that the wrong way. He tries.. he lost his job and during that time we lost everything. My point being... the ones who try they crap on. He works and some weeks after child support comes out his check is only $60 for the week. It's something I accepted along time ago. He needs to go get a modification because he is paying more than he should with his income.
Anyways, he tries, he works, he gets her whatever she needs, I think I even have gotten things for her because I wanted too but she needed it. Atleast he works everyday and bust his ass to pay for her and support me and Jayden. I don't have the life of luxry but I don't complain. I work full time and do my part. Whatever happened for OCSE to get involved was before me and it doesn't matter, he should pay. I just think it is unfair that they give him a hard time and some sorry POS can make no effort and they give chance after chance. He hasn't paid since I got the order.. no attempt, no effort, no intentions. Fails to appear in court. I mean, seriously.
Atleast Craig pays and tries and you know that you could called us and we would get her whatever she needed. The situations are totally different but my point, like I said, is atleast he tries, works and does what he can and when that payment is missed.. bang.. they are on top of it. Its ridiculous. Especially when he is paying way too much based on his income. He needs a modification but whatever.
They should do more for the child and less for the Father, especially when in 4 years he has made no attempt to pay.
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If this is the kind of person he is, I would not expect to see the first dollar from him.
And I don't... just irritated that a dead beat Dad who makes no effort they help and give chances too but yet my fiance' misses one payment & he has no license & gets no help. He pays every week (comes out of his check) and they crap on him but a dead beat who makes no effort they give the world too.
I hate to say this, but why would you have a child with a guy like that? I would stress over him. Let child support services deal with him and move on.I was 17 when we met and was stupid. I should have listened to my Mother. I learned the hard way, trust me, there is bad history on our relationship. After almost 3 years and getting pregnant, I got the strength to leave and never went back. I was 19 when my son was born. Luckily, I met my fiance when I was 5 months pregnant and he hasn't left my side since and my son has a Daddy.
As I told my ex, he can get 2 jobs. I did for many years. I work 40+ hours at my reg. job and 20+ as a waitress. If I can do it to pay my bills, he can. Alot of dads are using the "bad economy" as an excuse. I am seeing it over and over. Most of them have never been current, even in the good times and now they think they can get a free ride by playing the "poor pitiful me" card.He can dust his arse off when he goes to jail!!!
Child Support is not a luxury. Kids still eat, still needs clothes, still need a roof over their head, they still need health care, etc...even in bad economic times. It is not fair, legal, or moral to put all those on one parent. To use the bad eceonomy as an excuse is parental ignorance.
If you have kids, you do what it takes to support them. I do not care how bad it is. You do what it takes. And yes, I clean houses on the side as my 2nd job to help put my daughter through college, so I am not just pissing in the wind.
I work full-time and do what I have to do. Some men just think they don't have to take care of their responsiblities.
sorry to say, but shoulda thought about this before hopping in the sack, these problems wouldn't existMaybe so. I was young and neive and I learned the hard way. Guess you've never been young and dumb?
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He has not been in jail for for the whole 4 years the child has been here right?
so him being in jail is no excuse, he should have been paying it before he was put in jail.
Child support recovery is a joke!
it is a viscous cycle that they put you on.
Good Luck
Nope. Never seen him, not even a picture. I used to make the effort to call him and try but after gettting hung up on I realized it isn't my place to call him about his child. He will never support my child and thankfully I don't need his support. I work fulltime and take care of my son and I have a man who I've been with since I was 5 months pregnant who has been there for my son, our son. My son knows him as his Daddy and that is his Daddy. It's his loss but either way, it doesn't make it right.
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Trust me when I say this. Go back to court and have the judge garnish it from his wages. When I got divorced I told the judge I wanted to have his check garnish, the judge said yes.
So the job garnishes his wages, sends it to Child Support and then Child Support direct deposits it in my bank account.
When he doesn't pay that turns into arrears and is tacked on to the end of child support suppose to end. 2 Examples: 1. Say he pays you $500 they can tack on an additional $27.00 until the arrears is paid up.
2. Say your child turns 18 and he is $3000.00 in arrears and child support is suppose to end, it doesn't, he still has to pay all the arrears.
Just me on this, I am a wiz at child support. I collect it for my children....From, my son 2 1/2 yo and my daughter at 6 months. Now my son is 15 and daughter 12......But my son's part of it doesn't end until he is 19 because he was born in December and still in High School.
If you have any questions feel free to PM me.
He doesn't work, never has work, never will work!
This is true.....but with layoffs, use common sense. If the dad has no job, then be willing to work out a deal. You can't get money from someone who is not making any. It all boils don to this with men....if you work with them in a rational way, then you'll get something. But if you expect a man with no job to pay you "ever what amount on the books" and he has no job, nor the means....he will automatically label you as "economically ignorant" and probably just dust you off.Likewise....if he guy has a good job and makes enough money and aint paying you......do everything you can to hang his sorry ass!!!
I have no contact with him.... I am just tired of it all! He has never had a job, never tried to get a job.
Maybe it is just me but if he is in jail how do you expect him to pay you?He hasn't attempted to pay in over 3 years, doesn't go to court when served, has never seen my son, I have no contact with him. He will never pay! He's just that kinda guy. Lives off Momma, only cares about his dope, never had a job, doesn't try to better himself. He won't pay out of jail, he won't pay in jail but atleast in jail it will be some kinda comfort.
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Some how posted topic twice... oops...
MODS: can you delete this? sorry
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Or is it just me?
My son's biological father is ordered to pay a whole 179 per month for my son. He hasn't paid since Feb. 06 when the child support was ordered. Didn't show up to court, finally issued the warrant. Last week went back to court, he was transported from jail to court. The judge released him and released his license, gave him till May 24 to 500$ to stay out of court.
What the heck?! This man hasn't paid in 3 years, is almost 7,000 behind and you let him out, give him his license and give him 3 months to pay 500 of 7,000? Ridiculous! He hasn't tried, isn't trying and never will try. I understand, he can't pay in jail but you would think if he hasn't made an effort in 3 years, why try now?
So, he gets out. Whatever. OCSE stinks! I feel like they should be fighting for my child and enforcing the order, it is their job, and they don't. So, he has to continue to pay 179 per month plus 21$ to go towards the 7000 he is behind. 21$ to 6500? That will take how long?
I just find this absurd. My son is almost 4. I don't even want his money. OCSE is worthless!
Can I file a Child Abandoment Warrant even if I use OCSE?
He should be in jail... he is never gonna pay...
Just a vent. I just don't get it....
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My 3 year old just got completely potty trained & I did everything. I've always heard you can't force or bribe them to use the potty and that they will go when they want too and until they decide they want to do it, they won't. I honestly believe my son was that way. Through the ups & downs, one day doing good and the next day not, I think he finally decided it was time.
What worked for me: no pullups or diapers, they absorb the wetness so they don't know they are wet, with underwear they can feel they are wet and feel how uncomfortable it is. You have to be persistent and stick with it. First thing in the morning, sit them on the potty, every so-often ask them if they need to potty... make them go sit.
Every child is different and will go on their own time.
Good luck!
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ROLL TIDE!!
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It worked for Trista and Ryan... they have a son and a baby on the way!
So we can't say it doesn't work......
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It goes something like this. " ok Mr. Doe here is your citation for (insert traffic law concerning operation of 4 wheelers here). NOW you can't operate that thing on the roads it is against the law "wink wink", I would suggest you call someone to come pick it up and take it home for you" wink wink". Well I got another call, gotta go, be safe." <Deputy gets in car and goes to other side of county/zone quickly> <4wheeler driver gets on cell phone until deputy is out of site then proceeds to ride 4wheeler home, get on PCOM and complain about police harassing him while he was just trying to have a good time with his kid. "aint there more important thangs to wory bout other than harasin citizens that aint hurtin no body, OH wait they need revenoo.">
Ooops did I just type that out loud????
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Not me... I hate bad weather so I watch it none stop and let my fiance yell at me for freaking out, says if your that scared turn the tv and get awayt from the door
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Anna how is it looking over there in Douglas County?
I thought about you at the first sign of the storms....
Just dark and raining, few rumbles of thunder every now and again but ya know to me thats horrible.
I am scared to death!!!
Can I come to your house??
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Im skeered...
I have like panic attacks when it storms, i am terrified!!
the store.com...
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The Site to Store is free of charge... there is an Express Site to Store shipping which ask you to pay a fee for. I work at Wal-Mart and I assure you you can still order and have your purchase shipped free! Hope this "unsaddens" you