Oh good lord. Get a GRIP!!! Guess what "fairy tale land", that isn't an option for everyone
Then maybe you should wait to have a child until it is an option.
Wow- why would you get on here and say something like that? Every family makes their own decisions about what's best for them...what makes you think you have the right to tell other people what they should be doing with their children? Both my husband and I work. As teachers, we don't make enough money for one of us to stay home. Besides- we love our jobs!
Hmm, then u of all people should know how much more important